Whether you are merely on the fringes of the BDSM lifestyle, or it permeates the very fiber of you and your partner's being, there is something for everyone. New experiences and apparatuses to elicit wonderful and varied responses to heighten said experiences are just around the corner. Elation, even tears (of want and desire rather than pain or anguish, since sex should 'never' cause genuine harm) are a real chance with thoughtful, evocative sex play. Come with us, and we'll explore this winding road leading down into the depths of that sweet intoxicating blending of passion and pain. Blindfolds and Sensation Play For some, blindfolds are the quintessential addition to any D/s playtime. Sensory deprivation coupled with the sensory overload in other areas meshed with the complete and absolute trust needed to be willing to wear one makes this a magnificent tool. Imagine, if you will, as the shade slips over your eyes, turning your vision to blackness. Perhaps you can move, more likely though, you cannot. Your hearing becomes more acute as you pick up on every little sound. You won't know what your lover is doing until he or she does it. Your skin tingles in anticipation and at the first touch upon your flesh, be it with quality sex toys like luxury vibrators, a hand, an ice cube, hot wax, a clothespin or whatever your imaginations can dream up, you react instantly with a sharp intake of breath. Tactile sensations become poignant and are the sole focus once you are unable to see. Earplugs These do link very nicely with blindfolds. For a true sensory deprivation experience, your options are substantial. On the one hand, you can go with the cheap memory foam earplugs found in most grocery or drug stores. There are industrial variants that are similar, and then there are the hoods that some sex toys online stores sell. Intimidating yet finely crafted, these (usually leather, though other construction options are available) hoods provide both visual and auditory deprivation. Cutting ties to other senses besides sight serves only to heighten and prolong the experience. Restraints From silk scarves to saran wrap to wrist/ankle cuffs or industrial strength bungee cord, when you want to immobilize your partner, there are numerous options, depending on what you want to do and how comfortable your partner is with that particular kink. Many ankle/wrist cuffs come with metal D rings attached to which you can affix your binder of choice. Ultimately, the purpose of restraint is control. Direct your partner's sensations, which in turn lead to further enjoyment for both of you. From orgasm control to the most basic lack of simply being able to touch himself or herself or you, tying your partner up like an erotic Christmas gift can be a great deal of fun. As with any aspect of this sort of fun, safety is key. You must be sure not to cut off blood circulation, and in the case of saran wrap, the body loses its ability to breathe and release heat, so you have to keep your partner cool. When you remove it, the opposite will be true, so have a robe or blanket handy. In addition to this modest list of physical options (modest, because there are numerous options besides these which you can experiment with), there are scenarios and ideas, which can further heighten the pleasure and joy both parties potentially experience. From conditioning - or honing your partner to get off by doing or wearing a certain thing (even in public) to dirty talking, to role-play, your options are as boundless as your imagination. So long as you play it safe, and make sure your partner knows that you love him or her and will do right by him or her long after the welts and transient pains of want have faded, there's no end to what you can do.
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Try to use a spray cleaner to wipe them clean before and after each use, and make sure to note if your vibrator is waterproof or not. Use common sense, and don't try anything you don't want to take a proper knowledge about the adult products Before starting the most important advice is that don't be shy. This is one of those big steps in life that is so much better once you've taken. And you will most likely not regret it and hope to have good start. Start with beginner's high quality sex toys, normally the easy and small ones. Look for small size in the descriptions. Tell them how much better your sex life will be. Try doing some research on adult toys before you bring them up. Look at the information and get informed on the toys you want to try. That way you can answer the obvious questions your partner will have. If you do want to talk about it first, then there are ways of bringing it up. Wait until bed time and bring it up then. 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Here we are going to take a quick and easy look at the popularity of "props" for sex, including the ones that are most popular for women from one side of the globe to the other: Banishing Embarrassment First, understand this to be true... because it is. There is nothing "weird" or unusual about women who use sexual aids to achieve orgasm. As a matter of fact, there is nothing wrong with YOU either, if your girlfriend or lover wants to introduce high quality sex toys into your sex life. The truth is, there are any numbers of reasons why a woman can't climax from sexual intercourse, but CAN by using a device that is made for women... by women, for the explicit purpose of facilitating easy orgasms. As a matter of fact... women are just as likely to want to enjoy self stimulation and men are. And when you look at the very simple basic biological differences between women and men, you can almost look at a sex toy as the erotic equivalent of a "hand" for a man. If she can't climax from sex... A sex toy, like a luxury vibrator, can be an easy erotic enhancement that will quickly allow her to climax. As a matter of fact, most studies show that 95% + of women are able to quickly achieve orgasm from self stimulation, usually using a "toy", whereas less than one third of the same group of women can have similar success during sex. Just about every private sexual survey shows that the vast majorities of women are NOT enjoying orgasm often during our sex lives, but ARE in fact having easy orgasms on our own. This is due to the disconnect that many women have with their male partners... as well as the fact that most men lack the stamina, skill and occasionally the desire to bring his partner to orgasm, especially after he's finished. The biological basis for using sex toys To be precise, the truth is, many women are in relationships with men who simply aren't able to satisfy them due to biological differences that make climaxing during conventional intercourse impossible. Every woman's body is unique... and if our partners is not compatible, and unable to stimulate her most sensitive sexual nerve endings because he's not big enough, or endowed enough to "reach", she simply won't be able to climax from intercourse no matter how hard he may try. In this case, for obvious reasons... a sex toy can be a HUGE help (no pun intended!) as it can penetrate more deeply, and stimulate areas of her anatomy that intercourse with her man won't allow. The bottom line? High end sex toys CAN be, and often are the saving grace when it comes to great sex for her. Learning to use them can not only save your sex life... it can also save your relationship, and having her look elsewhere for satisfaction in the sack! |
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