Clitoris stimulation is a must in sex. As a man, it is a necessity to have the skills to properly stimulate our lover's clitoris as this can easily lead to her having one or more orgasms. Sometimes, clitoris stimulation is useful even during foreplay when you are attempting to arouse your sex partner. We are providing here simple tips for those men who are new to the art of clitoris stimulation in particular and lovemaking in general:
1) Make sure you know what is a clitoris and where exactly it is located. The simplest way to do this is to find a diagram of the female reproductive organ, either on the internet or in some biology text book. Another simple way is to just ask your lover to show you. Technically, what most people refer to as the clitoris is actually a part of a bigger shaft that extends inside a woman's body. The small mount (that looks a bit like a small pea minus the color) that most people call the clitoris is actually the clitoris glands. The actual size and shape of a woman's clitoris varies from woman to woman. 2) The clitoris is very sensitive to touch. Wrong clitoris stimulation can cause a lot of discomfort or even pain in a woman so be sure you are careful with it. Some studies report there are more than 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, making it very sensitive to touch and pressure. Before you start stimulating it, always make sure you have had some foreplay to arouse your lover sufficiently. Be sure to have some form of lubrication on the clitoris when you start on it. Avoid blowing on it as this may cause the lubrication to dry up and cause friction and pain when you stimulate it further. 3) Do you know that the clitoris can actually get erect? Well, it can. So when you start stimulating it, make sure you do not stop because you need to build the pleasure to a point before orgasm can happen. Stopping halfway because you are tired or because you want to try a different technique is definitely not a good idea. It will probably mean you have to start from scratch again to get your lover to orgasm. Pay particular attention to how your partner responds to your clitoris stimulation and respond accordingly. It is always a good idea to start slow and gentle and only increase the speed and pressure when your lover indicates she wants more of it. 4) You can use your fingers or your tongue as long as you have sufficient control over the stimulation. Make sure it is something you are comfortable doing and can keep up for a good period of time. Some women require you to provide longer clitoris stimulation before orgasm can be achieved. Some people like to use high end sex toys for this purpose as well. This is something you can also use. Finally, always communicate with your lover in bed. Find out what she likes and how you can improve in fulfilling her sexual needs. Sometimes the best teacher who can teach you clitoris stimulation is your very own sex partner. Click here to learn more!
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
Contact40 Richards Avenue Archives
December 2018
Categories |