Have you ever wondered why your woman is not interested in sex lately? Why is she bored with sex? For all the guys who think that women are playing mind games with them when it comes to sex, the problem may not lie with them, it could be you. When you are about to have sex with a woman, the last thing you want to do is to turn her off. Many men are unaware of what they are doing wrong in bed, thinking they know everything there is needed to know about having sex with women. Do you inadvertently make the following mistakes which may have prevented you from becoming a better lover? 1) Assuming you know everything about what she wants When comes to women, there is no such thing as a one-size-fits-all strategy, whether it is inside or outside of the bedroom. There is no one special dating or sexual techniques manual that can be applicable to all women. This is because every woman is different, each of her personality, likes and dislikes are shaped by her individual life experiences. What you can learn from those dating and lovemaking manuals is to learn and know about these ideas and when you put them into practice, you have to improvise, adjust and customize in order for these ideas to work effectively on any particular woman. 2) You are probably too dogmatic Some women who have orgasm difficulty probably need a lot more vibrations or extra help in order to come. You may be too busy doing one thing to be able to have enough time to stimulate her other erogenous zones. But men tend to think something must be wrong with a woman if she needs a vibrator. Think of Luxury vibrators as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use luxury vibrators and other high quality sex toys together. For example, while you are busily stimulating her g-spot, the vibrator can be used to stimulate the clitoris or perineum (the area between the vaginal opening and anus). 3) You think that what feels good for you is equally pleasurable for her There tends to be a "huge gulf" between men and women about how sex feels good. Some men are rather "superstitious" in believing that a big size male organ can give women a heavy dosage of pleasure when they push deeper and thrust harder, which feel good for most men. The fact is, the inside of the vagina is less sensitive than the outer part for most women. Due to this reason, deep thrusting is not an effective way to make a woman orgasm. If the penis is too long, it may cause her painful sex. 4) You ignore everything but her breasts and vagina Why some men seem to have a rather difficult time in pleasing a woman? This is because most of them seem to believe that penetration will give her screaming orgasms. However, the vaginal wall has very little in the way of pleasure building nerve endings. Due to this reason, about 75% of women never have an orgasm during intercourse. Sexual stimulation for a woman is not an on/off switch. Just because you touch a certain spot on her body, does not necessarily mean you are going to make her come. Before you even think about making contact with her genitalia, you need to make her feel loved and relaxed. How sexually satisfied she is, will depend to a great extent on her state of mind. You should focus on her entire body and pay attention to other parts of her body such as licking behind her knees, kissing her wrists, rubbing her back and caressing her stomach. This can mentally prepare her for sex and will turn her on a lot more and in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back. 5) You think that she is turned on when she gets wet Some guys are of the view that if she is turned on, she will get wet and if she does not, he will feel that he is doing a lousy job of not pleasing her enough. This mistake can also lead men to prematurely end the foreplay on their women. The fact is some women tend to get wetter than others and how much she lubricates can change from day to day. It can vary by the phase of her menstrual cycle and is subjected to influences likes stress and medication.
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